The Importance of Making Friends Within Your Industry

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The Importance of Making Friends Within Your Industry - Olivia Blogs - oliviablogs.com This week has been another busy, but as always, exciting week. Atlas' next issue is at the printers and will be on it's way to shops in just a few days time; nothing could be more exciting! I also attended a meet up on Tuesday with fellow creatives in Cornwall. My friend, Anna, who designed my logo's and runs the blog "The Cornish Life" and "By Rosanna" organised for us to all have brunch in Truro. It was basically just a chance for us all to meet and chat about work, being creative and life in Cornwall. It was a really lovely morning, and I met even more inspiring people who base themselves in this beautiful part of the world.

We chatted about various things, but one topic that came up was the competitiveness within our industries, and what can sometimes feel like hostility. Competition can be rife in any industry. Whether it's creative, academic, or business. No matter what you do, you'll come across competition. I don't think that being competitive is necessarily a bad thing at all; it pushes you to better and challenge yourself. Whether you're competitive with other people in your industry, or with yourself, it's good. However, when it comes to looking at what other people do within your industry, I prefer to call it admiration rather than competitiveness.

The Importance of Making Friends Within Your Industry - Olivia Blogs - oliviablogs.comThankfully, one thing that came up when we got chatting was that, down in Cornwall at least, competition isn't quite as bad. Whether it just happens to be with the people I've met I don't know, but one things for sure is that my friends are always willing to help each other out. I'd admit that most of my closest friends work in similar fields to me. They're either bloggers, photographers, or run a creative business of some kind. Some people might find that strange: why would you be friends with your competition? But that's just the thing; you can be, and you should be.

When you stop competing with one another, and help each other out, life becomes SO much easier. The negativity goes, the hostility goes and the benefits just keep rolling in. One perfect example of this is referrals. A lovely friend of mine, Lizzie Churchill, a wedding and portrait photographer based in Falmouth (yes, just like me!) recently messaged me to say that she had referred one of her client to me. This lady in question wanted Lizzie to photograph her wedding day, but Lizzie was already booked. So what did she do? Suggested me. And I can tell you without any hesitation that if it had been the other way around, and I couldn't work that wedding, I'd have sent it onto Lizzie.

The Importance of Making Friends Within Your Industry - Olivia Blogs - oliviablogs.comIt doesn't just end at referrals though. No one has the answers to everything, and sometimes you will be having a really bad day and really feel a need to talk to someone who "just gets it." That's where having friends who are in the same industry as you becomes so beneficial. You can bounce ideas off each other, give each other tips and tricks, or let one another know about big things coming up. It's so important to build a happy and friendly community of likeminded people around you!

So here's to no more jealousy. No more bad mouthing other creatives behind our backs. No more not helping others. Here's to kindness, caring and sharing. (I made a rhyme!)

On a completely separate note, the images from this post were taken on a foggy, gloomy, and wet day down at Durgan beach. I hope you'll agree with me that even when it rains (ok fine, pours) in Cornwall, it's still absolutely beautiful.

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